Friday, October 16, 2009

Opossing sides

So I must ask, if anyone is actually reading this. Does anyone else have the opposite schedule from their significant others?
I ask this because this morning I woke early. My who is lucky enough to sleep in on a daily basis since hubby works nights or at least later in the day and he brings the kids to school. I wake up closer to noon then 6 a.m. but not this morning. I woke up and could not go back to sleep as I usually do. Boy do I hate waking early mornings especially when I wake and hubby goes back to sleep. It seems to happen in this house every time I wake early which is not often at all. At night I usually stay up waiting for hubby because I have major anxiety am afraid of the dark am good like that. I usually stay awake and when hubby comes home from a night shift I pass out quicker then a heavy sleeper on ambien. When he works mid day shifts I stay awake as well but I still usually pass out first. The few times he works a day shift so to speak he goes to the bedroom earlier then I do and passes out first while I am stuck awake. Wide awake usually. So does anyone else have these opposite schedule from their significant others?
The reason I ask is because I hate it with a passion. Don't get me wrong I love my time and I know hubby loves his time, but there are nights I just want to use hubby as a pillow cuddle and we are on opposite schedules so it does not happen. Sometimes I feel like I have to schedule time to be with hubby, especially with the kids wanting to see him and the cats and dogs coming between us. So if anyone else has this issue what do you do? hubby hates that I try to schedule time with him but I feel like if I don't we just wont get anytime together some weeks.

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