WOW

I cant believe it the truth has been out and now the truth must be worked on. Since we have been in Florida Hubby has told me what a wonderful housewife/stay at home Mom I have become. I bring him food when he is at work, coffee sometimes as well and even stopped to bring him money and not take from him LOL. It is nice having him up the road at work instead of 45 minutes away. It is different and I enjoy it when we need something signed or he forgot something at work or took something we need. It is convenient. It is also nice that he doesnt have to leave he house 2 hours before work and instead only 5 minutes before. But for some reason even with the lack of stress from being hours away from home for work e are still arguing.

Before it was his job, now it is everything. I said something finally again, I had to but did I say it right I dont know.
Hubby made a comment "we need to try to be nicer to eachother" (and not take everything said in the wrong way... I added that part). It made me chuckle "are we trying to be mean to eachother?", he said "no we just aren't trying hard enough". So here it is day 1 of trying to be nicer to eachother and not jump on everything the other one says or take it as being nasty. I dont know when we started traveling down this path but I do know we are sick of it. We will be married 10 years this August and we want to continue to be married to eachother despite our arguing and stupidity. So today is day one of us being nicer and not jumping down eachother's throats. I hope this works and now this will be my new added thing to blog about, our journey. I think now a days it is so easy to say and then take action to get a divorce that I want to share our journey of getting things back to the way they were because obviously it must have been good or else why would we have said I do.

Quick back story

April 1999- I got my first car
May 1999- I got my GED
June 1999- I got my independance
July 1999- I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years
August 1999- I enjoyed life being a teenager for the first time in a long time
September 1999- I started cosmetology school
Halloween 1999- I started working at TGIFriday's. (Hubby worked there as well)
Two weeks later I broke up with my then rebound boyfriend. 
November 1999- Hubby and I went on our first date
Early December 1999- Hubby got kicked out of his place and was sleeping in his car, I aked him to move in with me and my Mother who was traveling for work. Mind you we only went on 1 date and did not have a good relaionship. I was actually dating other guys at the time.
Christmas Eve 1999- We became official
New Year's Eve- Hubby told me he loved me
January 7 2000- DD was conceived
Valentine's Day- we found out we were pregnant
Feb. 19 2000- We got engaged
August 4 2000- We got married
September 15 2000- We got out first place
October 1, 2000- we moved in
October 14 2000-  We had Big Girl

See kind of quick within a year of meeting we were married with child. So when did we have time for us. Now almost 10 years later with two kids in a new state and still having no friends we have decided we will reconnect and be eachother's best friends yet again. We dont always have bad time's but we want to make sure we have hardly ever since lately everything is taken the wrong way. We love eachother and we want to go back and change some things that we know we did wrong. So has anyone else ever tried this?